Age-Defying Hair: A Journey From Blonde to Darker Shades
At the ripe age of 56, I've been a light blonde for 25 years. The question of whether darkening my hair one or two shades could make me look younger is a common one. Personally, I believe that looking good for your age is far more important than looking young for your age. But, there are several factors to consider before you decide to make this change.
Why I Chose Blonde
I have brown hair that's starting to show its age with silver highlights. However, I don't mind the grey too much; it still gives me a warm, natural look. What I do not enjoy is the salt and pepper stage – the harsh contrast between the grey and the dark brown. I also don't suit blonde as it doesn't complement my dark green eyes and fair skin. Hence, I've chosen to experiment with highlights as a compromise.
Blue-Greens and Light Blonde Contrasts
The challenge with light blonde hair, especially as one ages, is that it can make the face appear paler and give the impression of being older. For example, the blue-green shade of my eyes can sometimes seem washed out or hollowed by pale, blond hair, adding years to my appearance. However, my daughters believe that the few shades of darkened hair have taken years off me, indicating the positive impact on my overall look.
Gradual Change and Subtle Stages
One key consideration is the gradual nature of this transformation. Going from light blonde to a slightly darker shade can be a more natural and subtle process. You can achieve this by going for a few shades darker one at a time, allowing for subtle changes as you go. This not only reduces the risk of your hair looking fake but also gives you a better idea of how the new color will complement the rest of your features. Additionally, experimenting with makeup can help further enhance the transformation and make the change less noticeable.
Other Factors to Consider
While the color choice is important, it's not the only factor that influences how you look. Your skin color, haircut, and clothing play crucial roles as well. A dark hair color can enhance your complexion and give you a more vibrant look. For example, if you have warm undertones, a deeper brown might complement your skin better than a dark blonde. Conversely, if you have cool undertones, a darker blonde or ash blonde could be a great choice.
Expert Advice
For more detailed advice, consider hiring a professional stylist. A good stylist will take into account the overall appearance of your hair, skin, and features to make the best color choice for you. Remember, the goal is to enhance your natural beauty and make you look and feel your best.
Final Thoughts
The perception of what makes someone look younger can be subjective. For me, at 56, being blonde has always been a much easier color to hide the grey that inevitably comes with age. While ageing is a natural process, looking radiant and vibrant can make a significant difference. Whether you're considering going from blonde to a darker shade or experimenting with highlights, the focus should always be on achieving the look that makes you feel empowered and beautiful.
Ultimately, whether you decide to darken or keep your light blonde, the key is to embrace your unique beauty. Age is just a number, and the right combination of hair color, makeup, and the right wardrobe can make all the difference in how you look and feel.