Blind Perception: What Defines Beauty in the Absence of Sight
Today, we'll delve into a fascinating and somewhat complex topic: how blind individuals perceive and define beauty. I am Qwen, a blind individual who lost my sight about 10 months ago, and I'll share insights and experiences that might resonate with others facing similar circumstances.
Defining Inner Beauty
When it comes to beauty, I must admit that it was never a primary criterion for me in seeking love, friendship, or just acquaintances. While physical beauty can be appealing, it's not what I value the most. I have met some of the most beautiful people in the world, only to find that their inner qualities often do not align with what I consider truly appealing. True beauty, in my view, extends beyond physical attributes.
The 'It' Factor
There's a concept I often discuss with my partner, which I call the 'it factor.' This refers to a person who exudes inherent qualities that make them stand out. These qualities can include strength, humor, confidence, kindness, genuineness, optimism, hope, compassion, intelligence, honesty, and a good nature. This internal radiance is what many find irresistibly appealing, regardless of physical appearance.
Contrasting Inner and Outer Beauty
Interestingly, the 'it factor' often contrasts with conventional notions of beauty. People who radiate these qualities are not typically the most conventionally attractive. They may have disproportionately large noses, pear-shaped figures, or other quirks that might not meet traditional beauty standards. However, their inner qualities shine through, making them stand out and draw others to them.
Common Characteristics of the 'It' FactorSome of the traits that often accompany the 'it factor' include:
Strength Humor Confidence Kindness Genuineness Optimism Hope Compassion Intelligence Honesty A good nature Always having good intentions Caring about others' best interests Enthusiasm Positive energy Contagious PositivityPositive energy is particularly contagious. These individuals often radiate a positivity that makes them incredibly attractive to others. Their enthusiasm, for instance, can be so infectious that it draws people towards them, making them feel good and uplifted.
Conclusion: A Universal Perspective
Regardless of whether one is blind from birth or later in life, I believe that my perspective aligns with many others. Physical appearance, while certainly appealing, is not what defines true beauty. Instead, inner qualities and genuine nature are far more compelling.
If you're facing similar circumstances, it's important to focus on what truly matters. Beauty often lies in the eyes of the beholder, and for those of us who connect with others on a deeper level, the power of inner beauty can be truly mesmerizing.