What Inmates Should Never Say on the Phone or in Person

Incarcerated individuals face a myriad of rules and regulations while in custody. Many of these rules are in place to ensure safety, security, and compliance. One of the most important factors to monitor is inmate communication. Phone calls are a common form of communication between inmates and their loved ones. However, innocent-seeming conversations can land inmates in serious trouble. Here are some things that inmates should never say on the phone or in person that could cause them trouble with staff and other inmates.

Prison Communication: Monitoring and Risks

Every phone call made by an inmate is recorded and monitored. Staff randomly listen to these calls to ensure inmates are not discussing harmful or illegal activities. This monitoring is a crucial part of maintaining order and safety within prisons. While not every call is monitored, it is a wise decision to adhere to specific guidelines when making calls to avoid potential consequences.

Never Discuss Escape or Threats

Inmates sometimes talk about getting someone to "tie up loose ends" or "hem someone up", which can be misconstrued as planning to harm other inmates or staff. Discussing someone "getting out of town" or advising to "not show up to the hearing" can also lead to disciplinary action. These statements can be easily misinterpreted and might incite unnecessary conflict or suspicion. It is best to steer clear of any talk of escape plans or threatening comments.

Prohibited Disclosures and Rules Violations

Discussing a criminal investigation, escape plans, or family members by phone can lead to serious consequences. In most prisons, it is against the rules to allow another inmate to use the phone with your loved one without proper authorization. This can result in disciplinary action for both parties and may lead to the loss of phone visiting privileges, good time, or purchase of phone minutes. Additionally, trying to sell your phone minutes to another inmate can result in disciplinary action and loss of privileges.

Respect and Boundaries

In prison, respect is key. Do not mention sending money to another inmate or discuss giving any form of value to another inmate. These actions can lead to a loss of phone privileges and other privileges. Stick to positive and constructive conversations, like sharing the latest news and asking for financial support.

Examples of Disciplinary Actions

I spent nearly 19 years in federal prison and faced severe repercussions for a single slip-up: I broke a visiting privilege rule related to a positive marijuana test. This led to an additional 17 years of no visits. This experience is a stark reminder of the importance of following all rules and procedures. Always be cautious and respectful when communicating with both staff and other inmates.

Prison Life Lessons

While in prison, focus on positive behaviors and avoid breaking the rules. Seek educational opportunities and read as much as possible. Knowledge is power, and it can help you navigate prison life more effectively. Additionally, be cautious of any actions that could be perceived as snitching, as this can have serious repercussions. Stay out of other inmates' business and maintain your own discipline. Show respect by settling disputes immediately and following biblical advice to 'be slow to speak and quick to listen.'

Remember, your actions in prison can significantly impact your time and future. Follow the rules and practice patience and respect to ensure a smoother and more positive experience. The key is to stay informed and mindful of the consequences of your words and actions.

Conclusion

Communication is a critical aspect of inmate life. Ensuring that conversations are subject to the correct guidelines can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. By avoiding discussions on sensitive topics, inmates can maintain their freedom and respect within the prison community. Always follow the rules and practice caution to ensure a safer and more secure stay.