Lifelong Piercings: Wisdom from an Aging Generation
In today's diverse and accepting society, body modifications such as piercings are becoming more common. Many people are choosing to get piercings early in life and maintaining them well into their later years. I, personally, have had piercings since my thirties and at seventy, I can confidently say that I have never regretted the choice. This article explores the perspectives and experiences of people who get piercings later in life and whether they regret the decision.
Consider Piercings Early, but Think Long Term
If you're thinking about getting a piercing, go for it. Whether it's a single earring or multiple piercings, make sure it's done at a reputable shop. And if you're not happy with it, there's no shame in taking it off. Choosing a piercing involves considering long-term effects, so do your research and be prepared to take care of it for life.
Self-Determination and Body Modification
Ultimately, the decision to get a piercing is a personal one, especially if you're not tied to anyone. Ensure you've done extensive research, understand the risks, and can afford it. It's essential to ensure that the modification will bring you joy for the rest of your life. Additionally, learn to care for yourself with the new addition.
If in a relationship, it's important to discuss your plans with your significant other and if you have children or parents, include them in the conversation. While considering their opinions, remember that the final decision rests with you since it's your body that will bear the mark.
Older With Piercings: Reflections and Realities
I, an older individual, have learned that heeding one's health is crucial for maintaining piercings. Health issues can slow down healing, making it difficult to manage new piercings. For example, if you had multiple piercings earlier in life, it might be more challenging to add new ones later on.
Reflecting on my own journey, while some piercings are acceptable (such as ears and navels), others, like nails or nose septum piercings, may not age gracefully. Tattoos, in contrast, can be reconsidered for a more contemporary look without the daily reminders of past choices. The key is to prioritize your health and well-being in your later years.
Common Truths and Myths
Myths abound when it comes to older individuals with piercings. Some believe that they would be more cautious and zealous about their modifications. However, reality shows that most people who get piercings later in life take them out if they are unhappy with them. Holes typically close relatively well.
My experiences, having been pierced for about thirty years, confirm this. I've found that the majority of piercings hold up well over time, and I've never regretted them. It's worth noting that some piercings, like cartilage piercings, may retain their shape and size, while others, like ear piercings, may eventually close. But the decision to keep or remove them is ultimately yours.
Remember, choosing a piercing is a personal decision that should be made with care and consideration. Whether you're young or old, your body is yours to modify, as long as you do so safely and with a clear understanding of the long-term implications.