The Evolution of Beauty: Makeup and Beyond

The Evolution of Beauty: Makeup and Beyond

Have you ever met a girl that looked completely different without makeup on? How did you react?

This isn't a rare phenomenon, as many celebrities and public figures can attest. Just google an actor's name and the word no makeup and you'll be surprised by how different they look. It's a common reality that veers away from the carefully curated images we often see on social media and in magazines.

While I have no problem with women looking different without makeup, as long as they are kind and not stuck-up, I have seen instances where makeup can completely transform one's appearance for the better. However, there are also times when removing makeup reveals a far less attractive face, making one wonder if a lot of the hate some women receive is due to their behavior rather than their looks.

I have met women who act so arrogant because of how good they look, but when you see them without makeup, it’s like a completely different person and an unattractive one at that.

How I Reacted

As for how I would react upon seeing a woman without her makeup, it would be hard to tell her that you thought she was pretty with makeup but now looking at her without it, she doesn’t seem as attractive anymore. Such an admission might be seen as condescending or insensitive. Unfortunately, because most people keep quiet, many women develop an inflated sense of beauty, which can lead to issues related to self-esteem and relationships.

The line between self-esteem and unrealistic beauty standards is often blurred, especially when women reject potential partners purely based on their looks, even when they themselves are quite attractive. In my personal experience, I have encountered such situations that highlighted the absurdity of this phenomenon.

The Impact on Self-Esteem and Relationships

The media often depicts celebrities before and after makeup, showcasing the transformative power of cosmetics. This imagery seems to suggest that beauty can be enhanced through makeup. But does it reflect reality? Do we really need makeup to look better?

From my personal experience, I worked with a glamorous Samoan woman named Samoana who was always immaculate, from her painted nails to her polished hair and gorgeously made-up look. She looked like a model. However, one day, when I arrived at her office an hour early for a local meeting in Wellington, New Zealand, I was surprised to see her without makeup. She almost looked unrecognizable. Her broad features and pigmented skin were far from glamorous, more like the Pacifica girl next door.

This experience taught me that the power of makeup is significant, but it also highlighted the importance of acknowledging and appreciating one's true self, regardless of makeup. It is crucial to remember that true beauty comes from within and is not solely defined by external appearances.

Conclusion

The world of beauty is complex, and the perception of beauty varies from person to person. While makeup can undoubtedly enhance appearance, it is essential to maintain a balanced perspective. True beauty encompasses more than just physical appearance; it includes self-esteem, kindness, and self-acceptance.