Why I Embrace My Wavy Hair: A Journey of Personal Acceptance
Whether it's because the hair grows out of my head exactly how it's supposed to or simply because it's something I was born with, I always have had a place in my heart for my wavy hair. It offers me versatility and the freedom to style it in various ways. There have been countless times when I've chosen to keep it in a straightforward fashion, prioritizing comfort and practicality. But, much like the morning shows, my hair isn't always as tamed as I'd like it to be.
One of the challenges comes from bed head, a situation where static electricity causes my hair to stand up vertically, making me look like a cartoon character from the moment I wake up. However, with a quick brush and a rinse, this daunting appearance fades away, revealing the healthy sheen that my hair seems to possess. My days are often punctuated by the same routine: combing my hair back, patting the silky strands with satisfaction, and knowing that the minor hassle is worth it.
Contrary to the popular notion that one might hate or regret their hair, I can confidently say that I love my wavy hair. It's a defining feature that has been with me since birth, and its natural texture can make a considerable impact. Sometimes, my hair defies my attempts to tame it, yet, each unmanageable day still offers a stunning look. Many people have advised me to straighten or straighten it, but the soft curls and natural wavy texture are something I'm deeply attached to. Even if I straighten it for a day or two, the return of my natural waves always feels like a victory.
Mealta of Growing Up with Wavy Hair
During my school days, long wavy hair was not always a source of joy. The mornings were filled with my mother's disapproval of my hair, and every attempt at forming a ponytail only led to frustration. My hair would simply refuse to comply, and my anger often directed at my mother, who wasn't equipped to deal with my every morning tantrum. This experience instilled in me a dream that one day, when grown up, I would cut my hair short. This notion gave me comfort during those difficult times but also planted a seed of regret if I were to choose that path.
My hair's silky texture and early growth make it stand out among others. I haven't subjected it to any chemical treatments or highlights; it is truly natural. This natural growth is a testament to the care and effort I put into maintaining it. When I go to social events or parties, people always comment on my hair, and a simple compliment can leave me flustered. What do I say in response to the inevitable "your hair looks lovely"? It's a question that has often left me pausing and smiling awkwardly. But that's a small price to pay for the compliments I receive.
From Long to Short Hair: A Complex Decision
There were periods in my life when I found myself questioning whether I should keep my long hair. Looking around, I noticed that most girls in my batch had short hair, and the idea of switching from long to short hair didn't feel as daunting as it had before. However, my parents' objections to cutting it were always an obstacle. They recognized the significance my hair held and were hesitant to allow me to make such a change. The thought of aging and looking like Diana (a reference to a popular fashion icon) sometimes keeps me attached to my long hair, as it feels like a symbol of youthful beauty.
When it comes to long hair, there's a certain level of pride and confidence that comes with it. However, the practicality of short hair sometimes wins me over, especially in college settings where it's more manageable. But the truth is, I love my long wavy hair, and that love is not going anywhere anytime soon. It continues to be a part of who I am, a reminder of both the challenges and the joy that come with having naturally wavy hair.