The Final Say: Making Your Own Hair Choice
When it comes to the length and style of your hair, the ultimate decision should ultimately be yours. While your hairdresser may have their professional opinions and preferences based on factors like hair type, maintenance, or styling, you have the right to choose a hairstyle that makes you feel comfortable and happy. If you have a specific vision for your hair, it's important to communicate that to your hairdresser. You can also seek a second opinion or find a different stylist who aligns more closely with your preferences.
Professional Opinions vs. Personal Vision
Sometimes, hairdressers are like guides, suggesting styles that they believe will complement your face and body type. However, their recommendations should be taken as suggestions and not as final say. If you feel that your hairdresser's opinion is not aligned with your personal vision, it's perfectly reasonable to express your concerns and preferences.
For example, I have seen some women with long hair that does nothing for them in terms of looking their best. Most hairdressers know what would be good for your facial structure. Don't be afraid to try something new. If you don't like it, your hair will regrow. Additionally, long hair can be donated to causes like Locks of Love, where it can be used to make wigs for those in need.
Listening to the Expert
Does this mean you should completely disregard your hairdresser's advice? Absolutely not. If you value the relationship with your stylist, you should at least consider why they think the haircut is a better fit for your face. Hairdressers often have years of experience and a wealth of knowledge about what looks good on different faces.
There was a case in point with one of my friends who was in her late sixties. She was very thin and tall, about five feet ten inches, with a long face. She wanted to return to the lengthy, straight hair she had in her twenties, which meant having hair below her shoulders. This style looked awful and added decades to her face. Despite the gentle advice from family and friends, she stubbornly kept it for over two years before finally heeding her hairdresser's recommendation for a chin-length cut. The result was a much more flattering look.
Empowerment and Independence
Ultimately, you should do what you want with your looks. It's important to remember that you have the final say. However, if you find that you are consistently dissatisfied with your hairdresser's suggestions, it's time to consider finding someone more aligned with your preferences.
No one should tell you to do something with your hair if you don't want to. Express your thoughts clearly and firmly. If your hairdresser doesn't cater to your needs, it's perfectly fine to look for someone who will.
Key Takeaways: Your hair length and style should reflect your personal taste and comfort. Consider your hairdresser's professional opinion, but don't hesitate to voice your preferences. Seek a second opinion or find a different stylist if you're not satisfied.